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Dating women over thirty is the hardest thing ever
Dating women over 30 can be challenging because of their pass load and higher aspiration. So, it’s not weird to see some women make a long list of requirements like a high level of education, multi-national travel, and mastery of multiple languages.
While sticking to these rules, if they feel it’s a way of protecting themselves from the mistake they may have done in the past, most of the time they can miss the whole point . A man who never graduated college might be brilliant (Steve Jobs). Many smart people, don’t have high degrees, and many people with a Ph.D. or M.D. whose intelligence has nothing to do with the best way of living together, in fact, even can harm it by their arrogant attitude. it’s important to look beyond degrees and discover whether the person you’re dating has character and integrity. Do you share common values? Do you feel comfortable with one another? Do you light each other up? Those things are far more important than a Harvard or Yale degree, or whether or not, he speaks Mandarin.
Some women in their thirties, refute having any dating problem. And say it loud “When Mr. Right comes into my life, it will be to enhance my already happy life…not to complete it”.
The type of women, who is well established already with thriving career will not expect you to be lesser than them, and in fact even if you make more they will most of the time try to keep control over the relationship because women in their 30 feel they need to take control of their lives blaming some disaster of their 20 to their lack of control and dishonesty of men meet before, and the man who comes in their life while they are in their thirties unfortunately pay the bill of wrecked pass relationships. Women in thirties when there are not married most of the time will band with other gals to support themselves mutually because hitting the 30 mark with no men or kids can be lived like a cataclysm so while they are supporting themselves they also have a certain resentment towards men of their 20 whom left them down for others, but there is also a dangerous competition among those women a competition that will force a man to pass not only the test of the woman he wants, but alas, also members of the band, who will always find something against him to discourage their friend. Some can blame here the wicked idea of the failure crew, who wants to survive in the failure of any crew member every single time.
But dating problem don’t disappear just because you get in your 30 they will be there as long as you feel a void to fill, problems begin to disappear when you overcome your insecurities and limiting beliefs about the opposite sex. There are fewer dating issues when you can communicate your wants and needs clearly and have confidence and self-respect. When you have a positive approach to dating, it’s just a matter of time before you find someone special to enhance your already happy life.
Flashmag January 2018 www.flashmag.net